HYPOCRISY

Hypocrisy in our society is same as corruption i.e. you can never remove it. Every person is hypocrite in some or the other way. You can see hypocrisy at every stage of your life, it starts from the time you were born. Our parent consoles other by saying that it’s amazing to have a girl child that she will bring money and light in your home. She is given the symbol of Goddess Laxmi but when it comes to their own life deep down inside you wish for a boy. As you grow you hear from you parent a lot that you are no less than a boy, but when it comes to any strength game you are sent backwards saying that it’s not your cup of tea. You want your daughter to achieve heights, to conquer the world but you send her younger brother with him to nearest store after 9. He is told by her boyfriend that she is bold and independent but he walks beside her to make her feel protective. He want her girlfriend to wear shorts but cannot bear the same with her sister.

From childhood we learn in our social studies classes that as per our constitution we people of India should not discriminate anyone on the basis of colour, caste, religion, sex but when it comes to marriage you want the groom/bride of you own caste, fair colour, own religion and off course opposite sex.

Just want to ask the society if you really think a girl child is special i.e. she needs to be treated in a special way then why being a hypocrite stating she is equal to men? If you want your child to get married into their own caste then why do you want him/her to be a hypocrite and follow the constitutional laws?

  Just give it a thought of how hypocrite you all are!

Life

From the day I started to the day today I am , I am changed . I feel good more alive. I have gone through lot of stuffs and realised nothing is certain. You each and every fucking day find yourself , evolve, your perception, thinking and theories changes as you become more and more mature because now you start seeing them from your own prospective or you feel them.

There was a day you judged your friend for leaving his boyfriend as she had lost interest in him or she doesn’t want to be in a relationship , when you were kid you judged people who had done kiss or done sex. But now you realise that when things doesn’t work out with your own boyfriend you say the same cliché shit you thought you won’t do it in you life.

THIS IS LIFE.

As you grow up, you realise that your career and family are the most important part of life. You get more focused to achieve goals or at least in finding one. The most important thing I learnt during my journey till now is never underestimate yourself , you never know your potential you are worth it to things you never thought you could ever be doing. Keep working hard because that’s what keeps you going. Never judge anyone because you are not in there shoes. Never let your thoughts change just because somebody thinks you are wrong, different or stupid. Change when you think somebody is valid in his/her point. Adopt things you think are best and suitable. Work for others because yes karma works i.e. you will get your own doing. Think positive, be positive, be bold, be whatever you want to be, speak whatever you feel like, live however you want cause at the end its you who make yourself happy.

Life is easy, it’s you who make it difficult.